Essays · Before the puppy
The two most common answers are wait until six months and wait until they have had all their shots. Both cost more than they save.
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New owners are told to wait. Wait for the vaccinations. Wait until they calm down. Wait until they are old enough to concentrate.
Almost every version of waiting is expensive, and the reason has nothing to do with training being urgent.
Obedience is not urgent. You can teach a sit at any age and an adult learns faster than a puppy.
What is time limited is the socialization window, roughly three to sixteen weeks, when new things get filed as normal by default. That window closes and it does not reopen.
Waiting until six months means the one thing with a deadline was skipped and the one thing with no deadline was prioritised.
The concern is real. Parvo is real and it is worse up here in spring than people think.
The resolution is that exposure does not require contact with the ground in high traffic places. A puppy in your arms in a hardware store car park, a puppy in the open boot of a car watching a street, a puppy on your own property meeting three vaccinated adult dogs. All of that is socialization and none of it is a parvo risk.
The veterinary position on this shifted years ago. The behavioural risk of an under socialized dog outweighs the disease risk for most puppies in most situations, and behavioural problems kill more dogs than parvo does.
There is such a thing as too much too early, and it does not look like starting young.
It looks like long sessions with a puppy who cannot concentrate. It looks like physical demands on growing joints, which is the real argument against a lot of puppy activity. It looks like flooding, taking an uncertain puppy into a busy place and letting them be overwhelmed on the theory that they will get used to it.
That last one produces the opposite of what was intended and it happens constantly.
Short and frequent. Two or three minutes, several times a day. A name, a marker, a hand target, the beginning of settling, and being handled.
Sleep, which is the highest value item on the list and has its own piece.
Exposure at a distance the puppy can handle, aimed at variety rather than volume.
Separation, starting the day they arrive.
That is a lot less than most people imagine and it takes maybe twenty minutes a day in total.
Most people reading this have a dog who is already eight months or four years old, and the window talk is not useful to them.
The window closing does not mean it is too late. It means the work is teaching rather than installing, which is slower and more deliberate and entirely possible. I have worked with plenty of five year olds who changed substantially.
What you lose is the free version. What you keep is every option.
Hard physical work on an unfinished skeleton. Repetitive jumping, long runs on hard ground, and stairs in volume before the growth plates close, which is somewhere between twelve and eighteen months depending on size.
That is a genuine reason to wait and it is the one nobody mentions.
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